Ask if anyone around the room has a charge with anyone.
Have 2 participants face in the center.
Share guidelines with them.
Ask if either would like support.
Have each hold the staff.

Ask the one with the charge:

What are the Facts/Impacts? (3 sentences)

What are your Judgements/Projections?

What do you Want?

(If the other is open, ask him how he’s feeling.)

Offer them some form of closure.